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April 20, 2005

A row of fools

I have almost never in my life stood in a line that was actually worth the end result of that line. Lines, in general, are the most agonizing system of torture for a man as myself whom has inherited an immeasurable amount of impatience. These days, I mostly find myself in lines I have no choice in being a part of. Under this category, we have locations such as banks, grocery stores, and shopping locations. These lines are virtually unavoidable, as the only place I can cash a check is at a bank, and the only place I can purchase "Who's Eating Out Gilbert Grape" or "Edward Penishands" is at a porn shop.

However, lines are wholly and totally unacceptable at places in which I have a choice. At the top of this list is restaurants. Waiting to eat, under all circumstances, is intolerable. Particularly in a town like New York, where restaurants dot the streets like flies swarming a week-old carcass. In the entirety of my life, I have never had a meal that was worth waiting more than three minutes for. This ranges from Carl's Jr. to La Fondue. There are a number of "hot" restaurants in NYC that require a minimum of a thirty minute wait (they rarely take reservations). Suffice to say, I only eat at these restaurants when forced by the members of my party. Once seated, you look at their menu, and ask yourself, "What the fuck does this menu have that any of the others on this street do not?" It isn't like I wanted to eat Grilled Salamander Tail with Garlic Sauce, and there is only one spot in the city I could eat it. Further, it isn't as if this restaurant I just waited fifty minutes to get into has an ambience or food quality that I haven't found at other restaurants (particularly those ones without lines). Regardless, it is all moot after a fifty minute wait, as my appetite has been ruined anyway.

Nearly as annoying as lines in a restaurant are lines for a bar or club. Using my previously described logic, I can tolerate a line to a bar more than I can a restaurant because the end result (alcohol) is more enjoyable to me than food is. That is to say, the reward of the wait is greater. However, as the bar options in any city are usually quite expansive, waiting in line for a bar better result in something greater than an offering of alcohol. Something that I can only get at the one specific bar I am waiting to get into. As example, the bar I am waiting to get into better offer a plethora of naked women with large breasts and a desire to talk to tall, fat caucasians, or, at the bare minimum, fantasy baseball kiosks.

The inherent problem with lines is it creates a sense of expectation. Any of those reading this who stood in line with me to see "Congo" or "Batman 2" will understand my point. When you wait for something, your desire for it to be good increases. In essence, you want the wait to mean something. It needs to be justified, or else the experience of waiting would be considered a waste. Whether you have been waiting for a movie, a dinner, or a wife, the waiting for it is the effort. It creates a sense of entitlement. If you wait for a dinner, it better be a great fucking dinner. The issue, of course, being that no thing, be it a meal or a person, can ever meet expectation. Expectation is created in your mind, and because your mind is always more capable than reality, you will always be disappointed. Expectation has ruined more movies, dinners, and wives, than hollywood, e coli, and feminists, combined.

In conclusion, lest the line I am waiting in is going to get me inside my mind, itself, I have no interest in a line. Next time you invite me somewhere, make sure it has empty seats and no wait. And if you do make me wait, it better be for the best fried salamander tail in garlic sauce I've ever had in my whole fucking life.

April 22, 2005

Spent Invite

I know this advice is coming a bit late to some of you reading this, but wedding invitations are the biggest waste of money this side of a 1987 Shawn Abner "Rated Rookie" baseball card.

I recently received a wedding invitation for a wedding taking place this summer in Campbell, CA. This thing has about twenty inserts, pictures, scripted fonts, thick cardstock ... I don't know what to do with this thing. All this just to inform me you are getting married? Send me an Evite and save the paper. The thing that sucks about wedding invitations is they are used as a superficial sign of personal wealth and love. The implication being, of course, that the more money the couple has, the nicer the invitation will be. Furthermore, it is an announcement of love, so the more excessive the invitation, the more intense the love. If I was mailed a Post-It telling me of a marriage, I would somehow be forced to assume the couple didn't love each other very much, because they didn't spend shitloads of money on cardstock and fancing wording. Let me tell you this much - when I worked as a wedding DJ I saw 8,343 wedding invitations, and they were all the same. Yours doesn't stand out.

The formality of these invitations is particularly annoying. Just because it is a wedding doesn't mean you need to "celebrate the love" of two people who "request the honour of your presence" (notice the british spelling of honor) during "two thousand and five at half past six o' clock in the evening." What the hell is all of this? Am I attending the knighting of King Arthur or a fucking wedding? Sure, you only have one of them, but most people who are directly involved with it have probably attended about twenty or so before, so it is special only to you.

My sister is getting married in May. I've informed her to save the invitation for someone who wants it. And don't spend the 45 bucks on my dinner of over-cooked sliced sirloin and dry fish. I'll eat at Jack in the Box beforehand for 6 dollars. When I worked as a wedding dj, i attended about twelve weddings in three months. These weddings scaled in scope from medium-income to rich-income. And never once did I have a good meal - which is a shame, because they spent upwards of 55 dollars for my plate. But the truth is mass-produced "fancy" food is never good. When someone is making 95 lobster tails, quality will be compromised. The only thing that you can mass produce and still be good is french fries and chicken tenders. So save yourself the money and serve that instead of that filet mignon you've been thinking of.

Weddings are a waste of money for the very same reason funerals are. Vendors play off of your intense emotion to make you feel obligated to spend lots of money. Weddings, you are way in love. Funerals, you are way sad. Vendors know this and take advantage of your altered state of mind. Do you really want to go cheap on your wedding cake, they ask? This is your day, the only day you'll have. You need flowers on the tables. And little chocolates that are four dollars each. And a shitty DJ like Mark Lee that cost 1,000 dollars. Because if you don't have these things you must not love each other! Show your love to the world! Let your friends and family know that you aren't a two dollar chocolate kind of couple. You are a four dollar chocolate kind of couple! The problem, of course, being that nobody at all cares about all this shit but the two people getting married. Everyone else has been there, done that. All we care about is the open bar.

As a sidenote, this wedding in Campbell came with suggestions on where to spend the five hours between the end of the ceremony and the beginning of their reception. Listed under "places to visit" are such hotbed locations as downtown Campbell and Valley Fair. As a seven-year resident of South Bay, I feel the need to comment that downtown Campbell has negative appeal to a visitor from anywhere else. What exactly are you going to do in downtown Campbell for five hours? Hang out at the Left at Albuquerque's and head over to Katie Bloom's for a few beers? Raucous.

And for the record, Albuqerque is the proper spelling. Don't use the unnecessary "e" in there.

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